ARE YOU GETTING BETTER (at hating yourself)? Stop asking yourself or thinking why you aren't enough, stop. You're enough, you're more than enough. Stay away from people who make you feel you're hard to love, who think you're ugly, who call you disgusting names, they aren't worth your affection and caring.
Just admit it, you walk past girls at your school/college/work thinking "Why aren't I that beautiful?" You walk past hot guys thinking "Why aren't I dating one of them? You walk past a cute couple thinking "Why didn't my crush asked me out? You look into a mirror thinking '"Why did I have to be me?" Yes you, stop being unhappy with yourself. If anyone hates your quirks, screw it. You don't owe anyone anything that you would change yourself for them.
This maybe a regular blog post about stopping you from hating yourself but for a minute think that the reason of your sadness or depression, includes self-loathing. Every fucking one out there will say bad stuff 'bout you sooner or later, it is a part of life. If you will let that effect you, you will be more depressed. Try caring less because once you start caring, its all over the place and to be honest you will be screwed. You cant expect others to love you when even you don't love yourself. Lowering your self-esteem for people who don't even care about you is stupid, you may think you will never get over it but you also thought it would last forever.
NOTE FOR THOSE WHO ASSUME THINGS WITHOUT THINKING EVEN FOR ONCE:
Stop it. Someone out there is disgusted by himself because of your comments. Everyone has reasons for whatever they are doing with there lives, you have no right to judge them. It may not mean a little to you but the person is already going through a lot and you're making it worse. What goes around, comes back around, so don't be a victim when it comes to you. Ironic, how you blame society for this when you don't even know you're a part of it. Every day the person you call fat is starving himself because of you, the girl you call an attention seeker is cutting herself everyday, the guy you call a weirdo is hated by his parents,the girl you call a slut isn't even allowed to call boys. So if you think you are making it better by judging them, you're dumb. If there characteristics are bothering your ass that much then ask them, that will be better instead of assuming. No one is perfect, accept that. Why do you even care bout what others are doing, go get a life. Slut shaming and back bitching will take you nowhere.
NOTE FOR THOSE WHO HATE THEMSELVES:
You're not perfect stop trying to be. Deal with your flaws, don't let people make your flaws your weakness. You will always find people that will love you even with your imperfections. Don't let people get to you easily. You have to stop caring. It will be hard to just stop caring but it will be worth it.You're not ugly, you are adorable. If you cut, stop because no one is worth it, if they were worth your cuts they wouldn't have been the reason you're cutting. Don't be insecure, you're more than enough. Once you stop caring people will start noticing and they will find different ways to hurt you.Things will get hard sometimes, don't get weak. It is okay to be like this. Give up on giving up. You will find bad people every where.Never let anyone handle you, eat whatever you want, wear whatever you want, do whatever you want just do not let anyone make you sad.
If you're holding back from doing something because of thinking what people will think, fuck it do whatever the fuck you want to.
XXX
Just admit it, you walk past girls at your school/college/work thinking "Why aren't I that beautiful?" You walk past hot guys thinking "Why aren't I dating one of them? You walk past a cute couple thinking "Why didn't my crush asked me out? You look into a mirror thinking '"Why did I have to be me?" Yes you, stop being unhappy with yourself. If anyone hates your quirks, screw it. You don't owe anyone anything that you would change yourself for them.
This maybe a regular blog post about stopping you from hating yourself but for a minute think that the reason of your sadness or depression, includes self-loathing. Every fucking one out there will say bad stuff 'bout you sooner or later, it is a part of life. If you will let that effect you, you will be more depressed. Try caring less because once you start caring, its all over the place and to be honest you will be screwed. You cant expect others to love you when even you don't love yourself. Lowering your self-esteem for people who don't even care about you is stupid, you may think you will never get over it but you also thought it would last forever.
NOTE FOR THOSE WHO ASSUME THINGS WITHOUT THINKING EVEN FOR ONCE:
Stop it. Someone out there is disgusted by himself because of your comments. Everyone has reasons for whatever they are doing with there lives, you have no right to judge them. It may not mean a little to you but the person is already going through a lot and you're making it worse. What goes around, comes back around, so don't be a victim when it comes to you. Ironic, how you blame society for this when you don't even know you're a part of it. Every day the person you call fat is starving himself because of you, the girl you call an attention seeker is cutting herself everyday, the guy you call a weirdo is hated by his parents,the girl you call a slut isn't even allowed to call boys. So if you think you are making it better by judging them, you're dumb. If there characteristics are bothering your ass that much then ask them, that will be better instead of assuming. No one is perfect, accept that. Why do you even care bout what others are doing, go get a life. Slut shaming and back bitching will take you nowhere.
NOTE FOR THOSE WHO HATE THEMSELVES:
You're not perfect stop trying to be. Deal with your flaws, don't let people make your flaws your weakness. You will always find people that will love you even with your imperfections. Don't let people get to you easily. You have to stop caring. It will be hard to just stop caring but it will be worth it.You're not ugly, you are adorable. If you cut, stop because no one is worth it, if they were worth your cuts they wouldn't have been the reason you're cutting. Don't be insecure, you're more than enough. Once you stop caring people will start noticing and they will find different ways to hurt you.Things will get hard sometimes, don't get weak. It is okay to be like this. Give up on giving up. You will find bad people every where.Never let anyone handle you, eat whatever you want, wear whatever you want, do whatever you want just do not let anyone make you sad.
If you're holding back from doing something because of thinking what people will think, fuck it do whatever the fuck you want to.
XXX
